Every event has its own unique flavor, depending on the crowd and their experience levels—but one thing’s for sure: the vibe is always fun, flirty and pressure-free. We start the night with relaxed mingling so everyone can connect and settle in. Once the room is vibing, we turn up the heat with a cheeky game or two—designed to break the ice and spark some sexy energy. After that? Well… let’s just say the bedrooms tend to get busy 😈 That said, nothing is ever expected. Whether you're there to play, watch, flirt, or just soak in the atmosphere, your boundaries are always respected.

If you are new here then welcome to our wonderful, diverse community! This is a great place to explore your sexuality in a plethora of ways. Our events are designed to be welcoming, inclusive and zero pressure. As far as advice goes that depends on where you starting point is, have a serious think about why you are wanting to attend our events and which one’s appeal to you most. Getting curious about your why is so important as it will help you realize what it is that you are looking to get out of your experience. If you are joining us as a couple then make sure you have this discussion together so that you are both on the same page. We have found that when one member of a partnership is being ‘dragged’ along by the other, things don’t always tend to end well. That being said we do advocate for people to push their limits safely and explore the possibilities of pleasure. How do you know its not for you if you have never tried? Discuss your boundaries before attending any event, boundaries and limits tend to shift over time and through experience, so regularly check in with your partner(s) (if applicable) before, during and after any event. We do however suggest that you do not change the parameters during any kind of play. If you realize you are more comfortable with something than you originally imagined, use this as something to discuss later and look forward to next time you are in that situation. Familiarize yourself with our code of conduct and rules around consent. This is very important! Breaching these rules can lead to you being denied further access to this community. Consent gives you power and should be obtained in any situation. We encourage this to become regular practice even outside of our events. We want to empower people to use their no, rather than people pleasing.

All of our events are held in Tauranga but the venue depends on what kind of event you are attending. Our social meets are usually in a public venue; we aim to book places that have a semi private/private area to allow people the freedom to speak openly with each other about their lifestyles without fear of judgement from the general public. If you are attending a workshop of ours then the venue will vary depending on the amount of people attending. Once you have purchased a ticket you will be sent full details of the venue and everything else you need to know.

YES YES YES! We openly encourage people to bring their own toys to any event. Please ensure that all toys are thoroughly sanitized before hand and if you decide to share your toys, sanitize between users as well. We also encourage condoms to be used on any toys e.g. vibrators, dildos etc. to reduce the risk of passing on infections. ONLY use toys with permission of the owner! If you would like to bring large scale equipment along to an event I.E. St Andrew’s Cross, please message the organizers first to ensure there is plenty of space to accommodate.

First names or aliases are fine for events. For the purpose of the sign-up application form we do require your legal name. This information will be kept private and securely stored.

Absolutely! Lots of our guests attend solo although we do limit single male attendance at some of our play parties. Always check the event details if unsure. At some events we will have games designed to break the ice and spark connection and we will always help those flying solo to mix and mingle with the crowd.

Each event is different so please check specific event details for more info. If there is no mention of food then we will not be providing any.

Let’s be honest there’s always a possibility that you may see someone you know at an event like this, but should you be worried? HELL NO! At the end of the day, you are both at the same kind of event which gives you another thing in common to bond over. If this does happen to you, my suggestion is that you have a conversation and address the elephant in the room. What happens at Miss Vibes, stays at Miss Vibes. It’s in the code of conduct to respect everyone’s privacy and discretion is a must. Breaches of these rules may lead to a permanent ban.

We are your go-to for playful, sexy and empowering events designed for people exploring their sexuality, non-monogamy, kink and connection – with a whole lot of heart and zero judgement.

All genders and orientations are welcome! Some events may limit solo male attendance to maintain balance, but we love a diverse and respectful crowd. Please keep in mind that everyone who attends our events goes through a vetting process when signing up to be a member so you can be sure that we have done our due diligence when it comes to attendees.

Grab them right here on our site. You have to be a member to purchase tickets so sign up and await an email stating that you have been accepted. Once you have that, log into your account and you can access tickets from there. We recommend booking early – our events often sell out faster than your favorite toy on Valentine’s Day.

Consent is non-negotiable! We have clear community guidelines and a zero-tolerance policy for creepy or disrespectful behavior. Please speak to a staff member if you see or experience this kind of behavior.

Tickets are non-refundable, however if you give us more than 5 days’ notice prior to the event we may offer credit towards a future event or allow ticket transfers. If less than 5 days’ notice is given, we will not offer credit. Speak to an event organiser for further details.

We encourage everyone to get tested prior to attending any event where sexual interaction is on the cards. People’s safety is very important and the last thing we want is for infections to be spread at our events. We will always provide condoms and lubricant at any of our sex parties, however feel free to bring your own especially if you have latex allergies etc.