Our Code of Conduct
Welcome to Miss Vibes Events. Our mission is to create safe, inclusive and judgment-free spaces for personal exploration, connection and community. To protect this vision and ensure the well-being of all guests, all participants in our community are required to adhere to our comprehensive code of conduct, which prioritizes consent, respect, and inclusivity. This is the foundation of creating safe spaces for everyone.
Enthusiastic Consent
We operate on a framework of enthusiastic consent - only 'yes' means yes and consent can be withdrawn at any time.
Respect & Inclusion
All identities, bodies and experiences are valid and welcome. Discrimination of any kind is not tolerated.
Privacy & Confidentiality
What happens at our events stays at our events. Attendee photography is prohibited and personal information remains confidential.
All potential attendees MUST read and fully understand the below Code of Conduct, this is mandatory and we hold the right to remove anyone from current or future events in the case that the following is not met. We pride ourselves in creating a safe space for all of our attendees and that starts by understanding that Consent is the key to making these events successful.
1. Consent is Non-Negotiable
- Only enthusiastic, verbal and ongoing consent is valid.
- You may not touch, engage with, or interrupt anyone without explicit invitation or permission.
- Consent can be withdrawn at any time and this must be respected immediately.
2. Confidentiality & Privacy
- What happens at MVE stays at MVE. No phones or photography allowed during private or sensitive parts of events. In some cases photos may be permitted at certain events, in this case you must receive explicit, enthusiastic consent from anyone in the photo and there must be a discussion and agreement around the intended use of these photos.
- Do not share anyone’s personal details, identities, or experiences outside the space.
3. Respect All Boundaries
- If someone declines an invitation, do not ask again.
- Do not pressure or guilt others into anything. "No" means no.
- Respect personal space, pronouns and gender identities.
- If you see something that alarms you, please inform a staff member.
4. No Substance Misuse
- Responsible use of alcohol is permitted where licensed, but excessive intoxication or use of illegal drugs is not.
- If you are visibly intoxicated, you may be asked to leave for everyone’s safety.
5. Safe Play & Hygiene
- All play involving touch must be hygienic and safe.
- Safer sex supplies will be available — use them. If you're unsure, ask a facilitator.
- You are responsible for your own health, boundaries, and aftercare.
- It is recommended that everyone gets regular STI check-ups for everyone’s safety.
- Showers and towels are available at the venue.
6. Harassment & Discrimination Will Not Be Tolerated
- Zero tolerance for racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, fatphobia, ableism, or any form of discrimination.
- This is an inclusive space. Everyone deserves to feel safe and respected.
7. Follow Facilitator Guidance
- Respect all instructions from event staff and facilitators.
- If you see or experience something concerning, report it immediately. We are here to help.
8. Right to Refuse or Remove
- Miss Vibes reserves the right to refuse entry or remove anyone violating this Code of Conduct without refund.
- Violators may be permanently banned from future events.
9. Risk Management
- All attendees acknowledge that they are responsible for conducting their own risk assessment before participating in any activities at our events.
- Facilitators will provide guidance and support to help identify and minimize potential risks.
- We are committed to informing participants of any known risks associated with our events in advance.
10. BDSM-Related Events
- Negotiation must take place before any physical, sensual or kink interaction.
- Safe words or non-verbal signals (e.g. hand taps, color codes) must be respected immediately.
- We support kink done safely and consensually, our guiding principles are S.S.C (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and R.A.C.K (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink).
-All participants must be aware of risks, clearly communicate boundaries and check for consent continuously.
- We have team members (Vibe Guardian) & a Dungeon Mistress/Master available to monitor play, mediate conflicts or support anyone who feels uncomfortable.
- Guardians may step in if play seems unsafe, un-negotiated or non-consensual.
- No interrupting scenes or touching anyone's toys, gear or body without explicit permission.
- Safe play is Sober play.
Negotiation & Aftercare
- Before a Scene: Check for hard limits, triggers, medical needs and what a "yes" looks like.
- After a Scene: Offer aftercare. This might be cuddles, water, sugary snacks (e.g. chocolate), quiet time or being left alone. Respect their needs and be sure to check in with any play partners after the fact as sub-drop can take a few days.
- If you witness a scene ending and one person sees emotionally distressed, check in respectfully or notify a 'Vibe Guardian'.
Miss Vibes Events
Creating safe spaces for exploration, education and empowerment in sexuality and self-expression.